President
John Kennedy was a reader and writer. President Lyndon Johnson was a
listener. President Johnson didn’t do well as he could in the White House
because he thought he had to follow Kennedy’s way of learning and absorb
everything through writing. As well written as those reports were, he
couldn’t comprehend them as well as Kennedy. It wasn’t until many years
after the White House that Johnson learned what type of learner he was.
Now, all we can do is think of the possibilities of how different the
United States would be right now if he learned sooner.
Eisenhower
was a reader and writer. During the war, Eisenhower insisted that all
questions be presented in writing prior to each press event. His press
events, outstanding and memorable because of his ability to process in
writing, opened his path to Washington. In Washington, Eisenhower, now
required to be a listener and respond on the spot, found it very difficult
to learn and think. This limitation did affect his decision making, thus
the world’s progress, and especially America’s success. His country no
longer had the full benefit of his evolutionary learning – his brilliance.
Our
school system teaches by listening and reading and not writing. This is
why many writers’ in high school and college do poorly in lecture-type
classes. When required to test based on lecture they usually receive an
inadequate grade for their level. When allowed to read and submit a
report, they flourish. When allowed to process the information in writing
they add to classroom conversations in outstanding ways. Many times
moving the information in evolutionary new ways or depths. Writers need
to design their study through the writing process. Writer’s learn and
perform by writing not listening.
What type of learner are you? Your
child? Significant other? Customers you attract? How does this affect
how they learn from you, how they process, and how they succeed?
The way they learn affects them in
everything they do in their life and yours.
For instance, are you an entrepreneur?
Today, it is popular for entrepreneurs to deliver their information
through teleclasses and teleseminars. I know, I’m a certified teleclass
leader, and offer these regularly.
Most individuals who attend these events
learn best through listening. The majority of the attendees are
listeners. Does this mean that readers/writers aren’t able to learn
through this manner? Not, necessarily. Their success does depend on the
leader and the event’s structure.
If you are a reader/writer and you are
registering for a teleseminar – 98% listening design – then you will need
pre-session prep notes, a recording of the session, and to set aside
additional time to process the information in writing afterwards in order
to maximize your learning. The leader needs to all writing time,
exercises, during the session. The event needs to provide preparation and
follow up materials, such as notes. And encourage continued processing
through writing afterwards. An important skill required for leaders of
both learners is learning the delicate balance between giving space for
writing and not letting listeners fall zone out.
Are the type of customers you attract
listeners or reader/writers? Because of the law of attraction, like
attracts like, and quantum physics, it is natural for listeners to attract
listeners. And readers/writers attract the same. This does not
necessarily mean listener learners can’t attract readers/writers. It does
mean that to attract the oppose you will need to learn and practice the
opposite’s way of learning. If you are listener, learn to process through
writing. If you are a writer, learn and practice listening and language
skills. An acting class is an excellent place to start.
Attracting the opposite is a choice. It
will require both extended patience and practice. The payoff can be
enormous in making revenue. There isn’t a right or wrong in this, just
awareness, observation, and choice. If you are a company that wants to
attract the opposite for a wider set of prospects, hire the right learner,
and have the patience to work with them knowing their benefit for the
company.
If someone is standing before you, you
can easily tell if they are a listener just by watching their brain
process as you verbalize. If they need to write it down, let them, you
also have the answer on how they learn.
Listeners who want to write something,
love to talk their way through what they want to write first verbally
before writing. Or they want someone to listen as they process a spot
they make be stuck on in their writing. Ask them to tape record their
part of the conversation. They will probably not need to hear it again
but the safety net will provide calm in their writing process.
This is why writers prefer to tape record
interviews. They aren’t natural listeners and need that additional
support to process. After years of conducting interviews, the writer’s
listening skills have increased to higher levels and they rely less on the
tape recorder as support.
Knowing your learning style does
determine life, career and relationship performance. It can affect your
job evaluations, who you attract in life, success and results. If your
boss is a listener and you a writer, it can be a big difference in how you
get along, frequency of pay increases, and even whether you are let go.
If you have every let someone go, think
back to whether they were just a different type of learner than yourself,
and this tried your patience. I know I can find a few when I was an early
employer. I bet you can too.
If you are in a high position, it could
affect America or even the world. Who knows, someone reading this today
may be President years from now and a single decision like going to war
may be made outside the scope of their learning style that can cost
America much.
Be brilliant at who you are by knowing
how you learn. And then doing it your way!
(c) Copyright, Catherine Franz. All
rights reserved.
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